Why Smart Christians Defend Abusive Pastors (The Fawn Response)
Why do intelligent, discerning Christians defend pastors who have harmed them — and others?
It's not blindness. It's not naivete. It's a nervous system response that the church has systematically cultivated and spiritually rebranded as loyalty.
In this episode, counselor and author Elisha unpacks the fawn response
— the least understood of the four trauma responses
— and connects it to parasocial attachment and the institutional patterns documented in real cases of church abuse. If you've ever wondered, "How are people still defending [that leader]?"
— this episode gives you the clinical framework to understand it and the pastoral wisdom to respond.
📖 SCRIPTURE REFERENCED Psalm 55:12-14, 6
🧠 CLINICAL CONCEPTS Fawn response (Pete Walker), parasocial attachment, nervous system regulation, spiritual gaslighting, trauma bonding
🆓 FREE RESOURCE Download the S.T.A.R.T. Guide for somatic regulation: https://canva.link/z7qticmfq7zu5wg
📲 CONNECT Website: https://www.restoringyouchristiancounseling.com/
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