The Scapegoat's Guide to Setting Boundaries Without Guilt
If you grew up as the family scapegoat, setting boundaries feels impossible — because you were conditioned to believe self-protection is selfishness. Today we're changing that.
In this live stream, licensed counselor Elisha breaks down:
🔹 Why the scapegoat's nervous system fights against boundaries
🔹 The S.A.F.E. Boundaries Framework (Space, Access, Frequency, Emotional Labor)
🔹 How "Honor your father and mother" has been weaponized against abuse survivors
🔹 What Scripture actually says about boundaries, forgiveness, and toxic family dynamics
🔹 LIVE Q&A — bring your real situations and let's work through them together
🔹 Guided prayer + 4-4-6 breathing nervous system reset
This is a safe space for scapegoats, truth-tellers, and anyone who has been told they're "too much" for having standards.
📖 Books Referenced:
• "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" — Dr. Lindsay Gibson
• "Set Boundaries, Find Peace" — Nedra Glover Tawwab
• "The Body Keeps the Score" — Dr. Bessel van der Kolk
📌 Scripture References:
• Proverbs 4:23, Galatians 6:5, Matthew 10:36, Romans 12:18
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