Tuesday, May 12, 2026

Spiritual Gaslighting in Family Systems: Signs a Counselor Looks For

Spiritual gaslighting is one of the most misunderstood — and least-named — forms of manipulation inside Christian families. As a counselor, I see it every week. Today I'm breaking down 7 clinical signs of spiritual gaslighting in family systems, what it does to your nervous system, and how to begin healing — without abandoning your faith. If you've ever been told your pain is a lack of faith, your boundaries are dishonoring God, or your perception is rebellious — this episode is for you. What we cover: • What spiritual gaslighting is — clinically and theologically • 7 signs a counselor looks for in family systems • How the vagus nerve is impacted by religious trauma • The difference between spiritual authority and spiritual coercion • The R.E.S.T. Somatic Practice for spiritual abuse survivors • How to begin recovering trust in your own perceptions 📍 Work with Elisha — https://book.carepatron.com/Restoring-You-Christian-Counseling/Elisha?p=F869i2fsQCahi2s-K3afuw&s=6ZZMlbpB&i=XgXzcJJJ 📍 More resources: https://www.restoringyouchristiancounseling.com/