Nylah Says & Elisha's Space: The Papoose & Claressa Trauma Bond — What Everyone's Getting Wrong
Why do all three of them keep engaging? In this live, counselor Elisha Lee sits down with @Nylah-Says Says to break down the Papoose & Claressa trauma bond — the clinical truth behind why leaving (or staying away) feels impossible.
We're not here to pick sides. We're here to explain the mechanism — because what you call "chemistry" is actually physiology.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
• What a trauma bond actually is (and what it isn't)
• Intermittent reinforcement — the dopamine loop that keeps people hooked
• Why the reward feels stronger when it's unpredictable
• The trauma triangle: shared attachment, rival, and ex — and what each role feeds
• Why "who's right?" is the wrong question
• A 3-minute somatic practice to interrupt the craving in the moment
• How faith gets weaponized in the "just pray harder" narrative
RESOURCES
📘 The S.T.A.R.T. Guide — free somatic regulation download: https://canva.link/w5cyc29h0ak1a1d
If this episode helped you, share it. Text it to one person you know is struggling.
Until next time, you are not too much, and you are not too far, and you are not alone.
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